Have you missed me? Well, I’ve missed you.
You have not heard much from me lately. A lot has been happening, all of it significant or challenging in some way (for example, my daughter Isobel graduated from high school last week). In fact, so much stuff has been happening that I have at least enough material for 7 1/2 gero-punk essays. But for now, what I have to say is this:
It’s time for another gero-punk public service announcement!
We’ve had a bunch of new folks join the Gero-Punk Project in the past couple of weeks. Hello to those of you residing in Columbia, Germany, and Turkey, as well as various North American environs.
Thank you for your interest in the Gero-Punk Project!
Perhaps you need to know a bit more about what’s what before you’ll feel willing to venture further. That’s understandable.
The Gero-Punk Project provides a venue for telling and sharing stories about our travels through the life-course. Together we create a space for trying out alternative ways of experiencing and writing about time/space/place, about age and aging, and about the complexities of being human beings, aware of the passage of time. We take seriously the idea that we are time-travelers: a particular age, all ages, and no age at all. We give voice to our flummoxing, fascinating, mundane and profound, odd and perhaps transgressive thoughts, feelings, and experiences related to this grand and strange adventure of being and becoming human in and through and outside of time. We legitimize confusion, uncertainty, and vulnerability, states of no-sense. As well, we harness our inner authority, our sovereignty, our growing expertise about our own inside experiences and our curiosity about the inside experiences of others.
We ask questions such as:
Where does age reside?
What does it feel like to be the embodied creatures we are right now in this present moment? (And what might it feel like to be a differently embodied creature?)
What assumptions are we holding about what a particular age should be like, or look like, and where did these assumptions come from? (And are we served well by these assumptions or do we want to blow them up and create something new?)
How might our confusions, mishaps and missteps as we muddle through this life be sources of learning and wisdom, for ourselves and, by sharing them, for others?
(And for those of us who are formally engaged in the work of gerontology) We ask to what extent do we see our aging experiences reflected in the official Gerontological theory and research? And to what extent are our aging experiences and our capacities to support others with their aging experiences informed by Gerontological theory and research? What are the connections and disconnections? What is missing and what might we add? What new questions might we ask?
As well, we ask: What capacities for self-care and intentional aging do we want to develop so that we can live vibrant and purposeful lives, no matter what challenges we might face as we continue our travels through the life-course? (See a recent gero-punk essay from Erica Wells that testifies to the importance of self-care.)
Also this: What are the ways in which we might be of service to others, to the larger community, and to the world that allow us to enact our deepest longings and commitments, help us grow in all directions as human beings as we continue to ripen?
And perhaps most important of all, we ask: If we had play-dates with our 8 year old selves, what would we do? If we invited our future older selves over for a glass of wine, what would we talk about?
This is by no means an exhaustive list. But it is a good start.
What’s going on for you right now? What’s on your mind? What questions have you been asking lately? Any questions to add to the list?